Questions to ask about having kids:
1. Will I (we) be a good parent?
2. What is a good parent?
3. Do I want to work or parent?
4. Do I want to work and parent?
5. Will we be more selfish to have kids or to not have kids?
6. How much time do we have to decide?
7. Do we have a choice or want one?
8. Do we agree---hopefully before partnering?